About the hostess
Hi there! Besides being a cat endowed with special powers, I’m a newspaper copy editor and freelance journalist. I’m a lover of life, good food, 1970s disco and worldly beauty in all its incarnations. My name is Cassandra, by the way. What is Marshmallowfication, you ask? It’s a word I made up that means the process by which something or someone becomes softer and more squeezable over time. As in, me. Speaking of me, I transitioned to female, with the journey officially getting under way in October 2007. I’ve achieved true happiness, finally.
What I’m up to lately
Working on a book outline and planning to propose my idea to Seal Press.
Some of my likes
* People who are unafraid to be individuals.
* Classical, eletronica, tribal/world music and ’80s-era Madonna. But first and foremost, 1970s disco.
* As far as books, I like philosophy, psychology and cultural studies. Also big on feminism.
* I love playing the drums! Hoping to get myself a drum set one day soon. I’ve been away from it for too long.
* When I do watch the boob tube, it’s usually vintage shows, like Charlie’s Angels, Columbo, Bewitched and I Dream of Jeannie.
* I like lots of oldies but goodies as far as movies, too. I am specifically fond of classic horror.
* Pasta, pizza, Mexican and seafood top my list as far as eats.
A Favorite quote:
Dance like no one is watching. Sing like no one is listening. Love like you’ve never been hurt and live like it’s heaven on Earth. — Mark Twain
Random stuff you might not know about me
* I keep my house neat and uncluttered.
* I first wore makeup in my pre-teens. When no one was home, I took my sister’s foundation and lipstick and put some on. I was blown away by what I saw in the mirror. It was an unforgettable experience. The rest is history.
* I used to be embarrassed about my height (5-5), particularly through elementary and high school. But now I think it rocks.
* I love the taste of white rice and soy sauce, with a dash of Italian salad dressing. Can’t get enough.
* I wish I could travel back in time to ancient Egypt. I love what women wore back then, including the style of makeup.
Other quickie facts about me
Domestic goddess, determined, neat and organized, frequently bubbly, creature of the night, romantic, musically inclined, independent, disco disco disco.
My dream
* Scenario One: I hope to one day be able to live in a primitive structure on a Hawaiian island, spending my days bikini-clad and alternating between going barefoot and wearing sandals. A bed, the sand and water, a hammock and a soul mate or two.
* Scenario Two: Stay home and take care of the house while my partner earns a living.
* Scenario Three: Combine scenarios One and Two!
Virtual Cassandra (Second Life)
I occasionally inhabit the animated, 3-D virtual world of Second Life via my digital self, Farona Freschi.

